unless it's with you

never wanted to feel weak in love

give up control

never wanted to let down my guard

be vulnerable

never wanted to feel helpless or too comfortable

i make it on my own

hey

i've been thinking a lot about the way that people change

the most beautiful beginnings can go down in flames

it's inevitable

and that's what's got me so afraid

i'd rather be alone

i don't want no white picket fence

dozen roses and a wedding dress

fairy tales are fake happiness

but here we are and i must confess

yeah

i'm in over my head feeling confused

i'm losing my mind

don't know what to do

'cause i don't want to get married

unless it's with you

unless it's with you

you came into my life when i wasn't trying to find

anybody to love

hiding what i felt inside

but you opened me up and now i finally realize

i'll be your girl for life

we don't need a big audience

thousand people we never met

me and you and a couple of friends

and here we are and i must confess

yeah

i'm in over my head feeling confused

i'm losing my mind

don't know what to do

'cause i don't want to get married

unless it's with you

unless it's with you

and oh

i know that it's scary

but i know that it's true

i'm saying i do"